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Say what? The emotional intensity was one-sided, and therefore more of an emotional disconnection. Forming and nurturing unrequited deep emotional bonds is generally not advisable. Krupnick is correct that the incidence of hooking up is no higher than it was 25 years ago, but that’s despite a culture that encourages young people to eschew labels while having sex.

Modern Love editor Daniel Jones says that “[Jordana] was able to articulate the potential consequences of label avoidance in a way that struck our readers as being fresh and true, particularly in how a lack of labels can lead to a lack of accountability and closure.”

Label avoidance:red-flag

There are only two possible labels for two people having sex:

Uncommitted/no strings
It’s all good when both people want #1 or both people want #2. But all too often, the girl is going for committed in lane #1 while the guy is winking and dodging the question in lane #2. Jordana’s tale is an ancient one, made common by the new rules, which dictate that not caring is empowering.

Relationships require labels. A failure to assign labels is disastrous for all but those few who want to avoid them. As a rule of thumb, if you have to wonder what the other person feels, you’re going to wind up disappointed. (Especially after five years. :(  )

I’m sorry Jordana has spent years caring for a guy who at 18 was no longer the shy boy who cared about more than the hookup.

Before Sunrise is the first film in the Before Trilogy by Richard Linklater, most recently the director of Boyhood. It was inspired by “a woman whom writer/director Richard Linklater met in a toy shop in Philadelphia in 1989. They walked around the city together, conversing deep into the night.”

A.O. Scott of the New York Times called the trilogy “the great romantic epic of a generation.” From Wikipedia:

The film follows Jesse (Ethan Hawke), a young American man, and Céline (Julie Delpy), a young French woman, who meet on a train and disembark in Vienna, where they spend the night walking around the city and getting to know each other.


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