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— Although a lack of masturbation causes me to do worse around women when I’m out, a higher frequency of real sex causes me to do much better; there is an added element of confidence that is missing from the former and present with the latter
— To further my point, there must be a further physical difference between masturbation and real sex. My own observation is that after masturbation I feel tired and empty; after real sex I feel tired and emotionally very happy. Obviously some chemical is causing this difference
- Masturbation, esp daily, leaves me feel tired, washed out, and unmotivated. Though it’s fun at the moment, I lose both my productive momentum and my initiative to pursue other pastimes. I think, if I remember right, there was a chapter on this phenomenon in “Think and Grow Rich.” During periods of abstinence, I feel a drive and creativity that, when applied to a project or pursuit, leads to both a sense of accomplishment and real accomplishment
- Too much internet porn over time has actually become boring to me. There is so much pussy on the tube that I literally started getting bored looking at pretty, naked girls – this alarming fact is what ultimately led me to try to reduce my masturbation frequency
- Also alarming is that it seems over a long period of time, I sort of psychologically duped myself into pursuing less attractive girls in the real world because I knew I could see hot girls on the net
- After 5 or so days of abstaining, I noticed that sex became less important to me (seemingly following the 7 day graph above). After about 5 days, I felt almost asexual
The Notorious T. O Double D! February 23, 2009 at 6:05 pm
Actually, the more I do it the more apt I’m am to be horny for more. When I haven’t been laid in a while, it’s not a big deal. But once I get it, gotta have more.
Hammer February 27, 2009 at 4:28 pm
I don’t know if I’ve ever really done your experiment justice, but in my experience with masturbation, I’ve had very different results.
There were a couple of stretches in college where I had temporary long distance situations or I was on campus during a break when most other people weren’t where I was pretty much cooped up in my room all day by myself bored. As a result I had stretches of multiple days in a row where I would crank it literally 5-8 times a day. I found that i would actually become horny more easily after a point, like my testosterone levels were elevated to a sexually aroused state and never really went down, or maybe my body was depleting testosterone too quickly and as a result it started overproducing testosterone. I’ve had similar experiences when I have been in relationships and done like a weekend by ourselves etc. I suppose it could also be due to some kind of addiction biology. Just theories, I obviously wasn’t measuring test levels in the blood, but that was definitely my experience.
Avalona March 11, 2009 at 6:04 am
Fascinating stuff….TMI though ;)
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